Bluetooth speaker inside rusted copper resonating bowl

Lily and I moved to opposite corners of the hot tub. Because it’s outside and we live in the Pacific Northwest, the underside of the cover attracts slugs and undesirable life. I’ve started using bromine tabs indiscriminately, I just dump a bunch in the water and it turns aqua-green and smells weird, but seems to keep the slugs away. Sometimes there’s unidentifiable matter in the water that’s distracting though, makes it hard to relax. I explained to Lily it’s more natural this way, that if we were in an outdoor hot springs somewhere it would be like this too. She didn’t buy it. She seems distracted, possibly tired, and said after a while well, I’m going in now dad—and I thought how fast it all happened that she’s taking on new experiences I won’t know about, and there’s a space opening between us. How much that journey away from the people or things we thought defined us is important—how much like an ellipse we stretch away and then return.

Dawn’s mom Beth came for Sunday dinner and told us about a story she heard on the radio, where it’s been scientifically proven that simply observing something changes the physical properties of it, something about the photons, how watching the subject actually changes the subject.

And I mentioned the story I’d heard about the nature of memory, how it’s a copy of the last memory we had and not the original, like a photocopy of a copy. How that challenges the very nature of history and reality, and truth: and that we remember more what we feel than what we actually heard, how government can use the media to that end—and how Orwellian. I guess we still on some level have to trust how we feel, for as much as we’ve forgotten or replaced that instinct with knowledge.

I circled the house in my morning sweater, the one I got with my mom before we left Germany this time, last year. We drove to a small village and took some country roads getting there. They’d advertised the sweater in a color flyer mom gets with the newspaper and there it was, just as advertised. I wear it about every day. I envied my mom’s partner Eberhard for the old, traditional liederhosen and sweater he had when the two of us went out to beer festivals there. His sweater had the feel of really old times, of all of Europe itself, of forgotten blood stains or spilled mustard that had just folded into the fabric. It was silly maybe, but walking back from the lake this morning I thought I’m starting to look like him. I wondered if anyone would notice. If working that into my story would actually make it real, if I could tell the difference anymore.

About pinklightsabre

William Pearse publishes memoir, travel journals, poetry and prose, and lives in the Pacific Northwest.
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17 Responses to Bluetooth speaker inside rusted copper resonating bowl

  1. Bill I like how you often end your posts with a question, as if the thought continues long after the blog post is written and read. After all, most of these thoughts are threads that go on and on, like the Dawes Song, the stories don’t end.

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    • pinklightsabre says:

      Ah good thank you Ilona. They start as questions too and I obviously don’t have many answers. Sometimes, like today, I post so i can keep writing but don’t necessarily have a cogent thing going. They are often threads like you said; I’m grateful you read. Bill

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  2. ksbeth says:

    i love the fluids of a life being absorbed into the sweater –

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  3. Lynn Love says:

    Love the way your thoughts range from your children growing up and away to the nature and effects of observation to memory and its abuses and mucky jumpers! All life is held herein 🙂

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  4. rossmurray1 says:

    My parents and I were talking about the moon landing, how we watched it at the cottage on tv. mom said we all went to a neighbour’s cottage. Dad said, no, we borrowed his parents’ portable. I agreed with Dad. I was three and a half.

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    • pinklightsabre says:

      Did the moon land in Canada? That’s cool. Did you film it? You must have. Can you imagine all the followers you’d get for that? But sorry, seriously, paw stroke, rub. ..

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  5. On that observation thing, I have a T-shirt that says, “Schrödinger’s cat — Dead AND Alive.” Once you look in on him, though, he becomes one or the other. I don’t understand quantum physics, but I like the idea that all conditions exist until one gets plucked out.

    I’ve heard the stuff about memory too, even though it feels like when I remember things they’re the same as the last time I remembered them. Either way, I guess it’s a good reason to blog or keep a journal. At least it’s in writing and contemporaneous.

    Spa goo!

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    • pinklightsabre says:

      I was trying to remember the name of that cat when Beth was telling that story. Good on you with the umlaut, nice work there. Good T-shirt. Boy that’s a weird, late night labyrinth of rabbit holes on Wiki, dabbling into quantum physics. I can’t even wrap my brain around Daily Savings Time.

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  6. byebyebeer says:

    I don’t trust anything I remember but it’s all I’ve got. I tell my kids all the time to trust what they feel. I like how this post flowed from the hot tub to Germany and the lake.

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    • pinklightsabre says:

      Yes, that adage holds about trusting your gut. Good advice to the kids, all around. My memory has that dappled effect of forests, dark in most spots.

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  7. The slugs would freak me out, too. It’s part and parcel of why I don’t go camping. Camping is gross. God, we’re all so soft. What did they do in the 1800s? I’d have been most unhappy. Give me a comfy sweater and bluetooth any day.

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